Living in the United States people are true to the expression of freedom of speech. While growing up we are taught to express our feelings and ideas even when they’re not appropriate in a given situation, this means that even when we should respect and be quiet, we often aren’t.
In elementary school students didn’t really back talk, they mostly acted on impulse when didn’t like something. For example, during cookie & milk time students would get two cookies, some of them would want more and take them from their classmates, the teacher would tell them that what they were doing was not right and/or appropriate, they didn’t exactly back talk but would express that they were still hungry. Back talk wasn’t a big deal in elementary from my experience.
On the other hand, back talk was heavy in middle school, I don’t know if it was our hormones acting up but it seemed like we always looked for a reason to argue even if it was with a teacher. When we had to work in groups set up by the teacher that’s when most of the back talk started because some students weren’t pleased with their current partners. There was a situation were a student did not want to work with me, he had a small argument with the teacher about his reasons for not wanting to work with me and the teacher didn’t do anything except telling him to get to work; then he got knocked out by my friend. They were both sent to the office because the teacher could not handle the situation anymore.
I believe the teacher should have taken control in the first instant of the situation so that it wouldn’t have gotten out of control. I would’ve given him the option of working with his partner and complete the task or complete it on his own.
When I was in 10th grade, I was the one back talking, I remember a specific occasion where I was in English class; the teacher asked me to read an article on the OHP.
Me: “no, I don’t want to. Ask somebody else to do it”.
Teacher: ” if you don’t read it, you will have to write an essay on respect”.
Me: “no comprende”.
Teacher: “maybe if I put the article in Spanish you’ll be able to read it”.
Me: “why, just because I’m mexican?”.
Teacher: “well, if you can’t read English then maybe you can read Spanish”.
Me: “s**** you”
And I stormed out the room. I went to the office, talked to my counselor; the next morning my English teacher apologized to me, explaining his reasons for acting that way and asking me if I was still comfortable in his class. After this he became one of my favorite teachers and we got along very well my last two years.
I had a physics teacher who was very strict when it came to grading, but as a person easy-going. One day she asked me to go up to the board to do a problem, I answered her with a smart remark, she responded with a positive reinforcement, I still refused to do the problem, she stayed quiet and everybody else the same, maybe a minute had passed when I decided to get up and do the problem, I solved it, sat down and she gave me a positive comment.
In my experience these were two different teachers who handled the situation very differently, my English teacher might have not handled it in a very positive way but in the end recognized his error, on the other hand, my physics teacher handled it perfectly and made me feel very good about myself, with barely any effort at all.
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